Vanessa Crous Narrative Counselling In Pretoria
You’re not a label.
You’re a story.
Counselling in Pretoria for individuals, couples, and families ready to feel and live better. Located in Waterkloof Ridge, Pretoria, with online sessions available across South Africa.
Flexible
Weekday, evening, and Saturday sessions available
Convenient
In-person or online sessions
Affordable
R500 per 1-hour session
"The voice in your head never stops, does it?"
You lie in bed replaying moments, what you said, how you said it, what they might have thought. You wonder if you made the wrong choice. The doubt is louder than your own voice, and you’re not sure if you're coping or just getting through the day.
DO YOU FIND YOURSELF SECOND-GUESSING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS?
You read into every message. Every pause. Every shift in tone. You try to make sense of what others think about you, even when they say nothing at all. You give so much that you can’t remember what you need anymore.
ARE YOU TIRED OF CARRYING WHAT EVERYONE EXPECTS FROM YOU?
You’re the one who shows up. The one who holds everything together. You look like you’re managing, but underneath it all, you’re worn out. Not lazy. Not broken. Just tired of the weight that no one else seems to notice.
ARE YOU LIVING INSIDE A STORY THAT DOESN’T FEEL LIKE YOURS?
Some moments never leave you. The hurt. The letdowns. The ways you learned to stay small, stay quiet, stay guarded. You stopped trusting others. Then you stopped trusting yourself. And now, the life you’re living feels like someone else’s script.
Here's what I know: You're not broken. You're not a label. You're a story, and every story can be re-authored. At Vanessa Crous Narrative Counselling in Pretoria, I offer a space to unpack your story and reconnect with who you really are.
GET STARTEDVanessa Crous Counselling Services
Individual, Couples & Family Counselling | Waterkloof Ridge, Pretoria
I offer a calm, thoughtful space where we can make sense of what you’re feeling and work toward real change. Together, we’ll explore your story, unpack what’s been weighing you down, and help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
Individual Counselling
Feeling stuck or overwhelmed?
I help you understand your story, shift harmful patterns, and find your way forward.
Couples Counselling
Struggling to feel close again?
I work with you and your partner to rebuild connection, trust, and honest communication.
Teen Counselling
Is your teen carrying too much?
I help them name what’s hard, feel heard, and build healthier ways to cope.
Children & Family Counselling
Home feeling tense ?
We’ll work together to restore calm, rebuild trust, and improve how you relate.
Areas I Support
Vanessa Crous Narrative Counselling
Abuse Recovery
We’ll work gently with your story, rebuild safety, and restore your sense of self.
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I help you calm racing thoughts, ease tension, and feel more in control.
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We’ll work to bring back meaning, energy, and a sense of hope.
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A gentle space to honour your loss and move forward in your own time.
Learn MoreSelf-Harm
A safe space to explore the pain beneath the surface and find better ways to cope.
Learn MoreTrauma
Together, we’ll make sense of the past and strengthen your story of resilience.
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Every story begins
with a first word
Book online or send a WhatsApp. In-person sessions are available in Pretoria, with online counselling across South Africa.
Why Work With Vanessa?
ABOUT ME
I’m Vanessa. I help individuals, couples, and families unpack their stories so they can find clarity, not confusion, and speak without fear of being judged. I come from the world of teaching and adult education. For 20 years, I helped people grow their skills. But the more I listened, the more I realised people weren’t just hungry to learn, they were hungry to be heard.
I still can’t believe I get to do this work. Helping someone move from “I’m too much” or “I’m not enough” to “I know who I am” is an honour I don’t take lightly. Clients often say I ask questions that no one’s asked them before. I’m not afraid to sit in the silence or stay curious until things start to click. I don’t fix, I listen. Deeply.
Most people I work with are tired of explaining themselves. Here, you don’t have to. Whether you’re carrying trauma, burnout, or shame, this is a space where we slow down, pay attention, and begin shifting the story you’ve been carrying for years.
Just so you know, I’m verified by Psychology Today.
How counselling works with me
MY APPROACH
You’re not a problem to fix. You’re a person with a story that matters. Each session is shaped around your life, your values, and your pace.
I listen to your story
Everything begins with understanding what you’ve been through. I take time to hear what’s shaped you, without judgement or rushing.
We unpick what’s beneath
Together, we externalise the problem, gently deconstruct it, and start seeing the patterns it’s built on.
We shape a new way forward
We build new, life-giving stories, ones that feel more like you and support how you want to live.
Frequently Asked Questions
Vanessa Crous Narrative Counselling
Do you accept medical aid? What are your session fees?
I’m a registered counsellor, not a psychologist, so medical aids don’t reimburse sessions. My fee is R500 for a one-hour session, payable by EFT or cash.
Do you offer in-person or online counselling?
Yes, I offer both. Most clients choose in-person sessions, but I also work online and welcome more clients in that space.
Do you offer evening or weekend sessions?
Yes. I’m available Monday to Friday, 9:00–17:00, and offer evening and occasional Saturday appointments by request.
How often do we meet for counselling?
Some clients come weekly, especially at the beginning. Others move to fortnightly or monthly as they settle. I usually recommend starting with three sessions so we can build momentum and see what’s needed.
What is your cancellation policy?
Please let me know at least 24 hours in advance if you need to reschedule. Late cancellations may still be charged, as that time was set aside for you.
Get in touch when
you're ready
Counselling in Pretoria & Online Across South Africa
Whether you’re considering narrative counselling for the first time, booking a session for your teen, or looking for help with a family or couple dynamic, I’d love to hear from you.
If you’re not sure what you need yet, that’s okay too. Just send a message. You don’t have to have it all figured out.
- Call: 082 324 9735
- 414 Cliff Avenue, Waterkloof Ridge Ext 2, Pretoria, 0181
- Online counselling across South Africa
Last step: Press SEND. (psstttt… we just became best friends.)
This Work Is Gentle, But It Changes Lives
testimonials
Vanessa is a superb counsellor. She manages to put one at ease and offers tremendous logic and insights. She greatly softens the blows life hands out and offers coping mechanisms.
Dankie tannie Vanessa dat ek altyd met tannie kon gesels en dat tannie my gehelp het. Ek het altyd uitgesien daarna om soontoe te kom.
Vanessa’s caring approach brought real breakthroughs. She listens with empathy, offers clear insights, and helps you make sense of difficult thoughts and emotions. Her support has not only helped me grow personally but also improved how I show up in my work and business.
Vanessa het my 18-jarige dogter met spesiale behoeftes met soveel geduld en liefde hanteer. Deur die manier wat sy werk, het sy haar vertroue ten volle gewen. Sy het absoluut ‘n passie vir wat sy doen. Baie dankie Vanessa!
Vanessa Crous Narrative Counselling
Counselling in Pretoria & Online Across South Africa
You're Not A Label. You're A Story
